Unpacking the Rivalry: Houston and Dallas - More Than Just a Contemptuous Perspective
When it comes to cities in Texas, the rivalry between Houston and Dallas often makes headlines. A common belief is that people from one city do not hold fond feelings towards those from the other. But is there any truth to it? And if so, why does this enmity persist, and what can be done to repair any ill will?
Jealousy and Rivalry
The rivalry between Houston and Dallas has its roots in the cities' competition over population. Houston, though almost but not quite the largest metro in Texas, has faced a long-standing issue with its metro being consistently about 500,000 people smaller than Dallas-Fort Worth. This has led some Houstonians to hold Dallas in contempt—just as many San Franciscans hold Los Angeles in contempt, due to similar population discrepancies.
However, the rivalry extends beyond just population comparisons. Major metro areas in Texas have distinct characteristics that contribute to partisanship among their residents. For example, Dallas and Austin are vastly different in terms of culture, while Dallas and San Antonio share unique traits that set them apart. These differences can create a sense of superiority and disdain among residents of one city towards residents of another.
Superficial Rivalry and Cultural Differences
Oh my gosh, is that the rumor? Can you imagine hearing: "Hold my beer, pssst, hey Joe did you hear about Dallas and Houston…?" Such a rumor might exist, but it's largely based on a superficial rivalry and sports teams’ competitions. Living in San Antonio, I can assure you that the residents of Dallas do not "hate" San Antonio or vice versa. It’s all good man.
Both Houston and Dallas have been humiliated for decades due to census population data. The metro of Houston has been consistently smaller by about 500,000 people, which leads to a sense of validation and contempt for Dallas. On the other hand, people in Dallas often have no interest in Houston's existence, which can exacerbate any negative feelings.
Personal Experience and Friendships
For those who have lived in both cities, perceptions can be quite different. Since moving to Dallas from San Antonio early in 1979, I've seen firsthand that not everyone shares the stereotype. I have numerous friends from both cities, including a dear friend who works in the Houston mayor's office. I've never found the premise that all Houstonians hate Dallas or vice versa to be entirely true.
Houston and Dallas are indeed similar in size and may hold a sports rivalry, but much deeper differences exist. For instance, Houston experiences extremely humid summers, while DFW has higher but drier summers. The organizations and structures of the urban landscapes, public transportation, types of work, and economies also play significant roles in shaping the unique identities of these cities. These differences often make them incompatible, leading some residents to dislike or feel indifferent towards the other city.
Moreover, Los Angeles and San Francisco are a prime example of cities with a significant rivalry, where San Francisco has a flagrant contempt for Los Angeles, and Los Angeles views San Francisco as "cute." This further emphasizes how even in the same state, cities can develop a range of cultural and social dynamics that contribute to their identities and perceived antipathies.
Repairing Tensions and Building Understanding
Addressing the tension between Houston and Dallas requires a nuanced approach. Recognizing and embracing the unique qualities and differences of each city is crucial. Encouraging grassroots initiatives and community events that bring residents from different cities together can help foster understanding and reduce stereotypes. Educational programs that highlight the similarities and shared history of the metro areas could also be beneficial.
Ultimately, it's important to have a balanced perspective. While competition is natural, it shouldn't lead to an "us versus them" mentality. By acknowledging and celebrating the differences, we can work towards a more harmonious relationship between these two vibrant and distinct cities.