Reflections on Moving Away from NYC: A Personal Journey

Leaving New York City (NYC) has been a significant decision for many, and in my case, it was a mix of retirement and a desire for a different lifestyle. However, I don’t regret the move, for it brought with it several unexpected blessings and lessons that have made my life richer in different ways.

Setting Off to a New Chapter

For some, the decision to leave NYC is driven by financial considerations or a desire for a simpler pace of life. In my case, it was a combination of both. I had no regrets about moving, especially during the early stages of the pandemic when the world seemed uncertain. It was comforting to be close to family during this time, and the decision gave me a sense of relief and a new beginning.

A New Life with Different Priorities

Now, five months after my move, I miss the vibrant social scene, the street food, and the iconic boroughs of NYC. My new home is more reserved and takes time to explore, which is challenging but rewarding. Making friends here is a slow process, and the way people approach food is quite different. Food used to be a source of pleasure, a way to showcase creativity and innovation. In contrast, here, it's more about sustenance.

A Spoke in the Wheel of Global Service

My journey in NYC stretches back 15 years, and while I regret moving away at times, I know it was inevitable. I served in the Foreign Service and embraced the idea that my career would take me around the world. So, being stationed in places like the Brooklyn Navy Base, I witnessed both the charm and the harsh realities of city life. Living in Brooklyn, I experienced fear and danger that made a lasting impact on me. The Brooklyn Navy Yard, where I was stationed from 1985-1986, was a stark reminder of the challenges one can face.

Is Relocation the Answer?

I candidly and sincerely hope that those who are considering leaving New York and California think about the impact their decisions might have. Voting for corrupt and ignorant politicians who have ruined these states does not justify uprooting oneself. Instead of moving to states like Texas and Arizona to vote the same way, I advise staying and making a difference where you are. These states, like New York and California, have so much to offer; there’s no need to escape their realities.

Conclusion: My departure from NYC has been a mix of welcome change and bittersweet nostalgia. It’s taught me the value of human connections and the importance of one's surroundings. While I miss certain aspects of the city, the journey has been transformative, and I find myself fitting in and thriving in my new home.